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Do you think there are insurmountable gaps between you and your family? Thinking solves nothing, you know that! You better get your paints ready to get along with them and keep you on good terms!If we were to give you a piece of white A4 paper and some colored pencils and say “draw us a picture of your family”, what kind of picture would that look like? What would everyone look like, what colors would predominate in the picture? Blues, pinks, reds or blacks, greys, browns?… Now close your eyes and imagine drawing such a picture. Then hang this photo on the wall of the room. Well, is this really the picture you want to see in front of you? So that’s fine, but if you want a more colorful, loving and smiling face paint, open your eyes and act to create it.
The family, no one can replace our mother, our father, our brothers and sisters… The part of us that we cannot separate ourselves from, our family. And of course, our relationship with them is quite different from our relationship with our friends. We can’t expect it to be the same either, can we? We are in a different comfort at home. We can sleep next to them, we don’t hesitate to go out in front of them in stained pajamas if necessary, we don’t have to follow the rules of the table… But besides that, we can’t not always share what we share with our friends. For example, talking about your first kiss to your parents as if you were telling your girlfriends can be like jumping a ditch on a camel. Although we expect them to be considerate and friendly, they have to admit it’s a bit difficult. Their age, their experience and the notion of “parent” make our relationship with them different. But that doesn’t mean they don’t understand us. Of course, and more than you think. After all, they walked those paths too. But still, there are times when we don’t speak the same language as them, they can stay French all our lives! In such cases, what it takes to speak the same language is to be a little more sensitive and careful, to try to spice up your family image. Especially look at this happy family photo, what colors should you add…